1. Even after the initial infatuation, my sense of self disappears when I am in a relationship.
   
    Mostly true
    Mostly false

2. Without being in a relationship, I am nobody.
   
    Mostly true
    Mostly false

3. I value my own opinions and ideas at least as much as I do my partner's.
   
    Mostly true
    Mostly false

4. I live in constant fear of being rejected by my partner.
   
    Mostly true
    Mostly false

5. If I was continuously mistreated or abused by my partner (emotionally, psychologically or physically), I would leave the relationship.
   
    Mostly true
    Mostly false

6. I give in at the first sign of my partner's disapproval.
   
    Mostly true
    Mostly false

7. I frequently resent my partner for making me act against my will.
   
    Mostly true
    Mostly false

8. When my partner is upset, I automatically assume that it is my fault.
   
    Mostly true
    Mostly false

9. I have to be whatever my partner wants me to be; otherwise s/he will leave me.
   
    Mostly true
    Mostly false

10. I may (or may not) be devastated if we broke up, but I would survive.
    
     Mostly true
     Mostly false

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