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Jealousy Test

For Gay Men

10 questions, 5 min

Your partner is in another room. The phone rings and you answer it. It's a male voice (you don't recognize it) and he wants to talk to your partner. It appears they are on a first name basis.

  1. How much would it bother you?

    Extremely
    Very much
    Moderately
    A little bit
    Barely
    Not at all

  2. How would do you react?

    I would ask the man who he is and why he's calling, and try to intimidate him.
    I would ask the man who he is and why he's calling, and listen for clues in his tone and responses.
    I would ask the man who he is and question my partner about him before passing him the phone.
    I would ask who is calling, as I do usually, and pass him the phone.
    I would ask who is calling, which I usually don't, and pass him the phone.
    I would pass him the phone with a big question mark written all over my face.
    I would ask him who the caller is and would not give him the phone until he explains himself.
    I would pass him the phone but would wonder, silently, who the caller might be and what the hell he is calling my partner about.
    I would pass him the phone without having any second thoughts.
Your boyfriend and you are at a party. An attractive man is flirting with him and he seems to be flirting back.

  1. How much would it bother you?

    Extremely
    Very
    Moderately
    A little bit
    Barely
    Not at all

  2. How would do you react?

    I would talk to my partner and insist that we leave the party.
    I would get up and beat the crap out of the man.
    I would leave the party without telling him.
    I would approach them and join the conversation with some ironic remark about their flirting.
    I would approach them and casually join their conversation.
    I would try not to pay any attention but I would have a look at them from time to time.
    I wouldn't pay attention to them and would go on with my own fun.
    I couldn't help watching them continuously, even though I would try not to.
    I would stare at them until they noticed and stopped.
    I would approach them and confront them verbally.
    I would take my mate aside and confront him.
    I would take the man aside and confront him.
    I would tell him I am not feeling well and would leave the party, with or without him.
    I would find someone to flirt with myself but wouldn't really enjoy it.
    I would flirt with another man and have a good time.

  3. Afterwards,

    I would confront him and let out my anger and frustration.
    I would do things that I know upset him to pay him back.
    I would confront him and tell him how his flirting hurt me.
    I would never mention it again because, as I see it, nothing serious had happened.
    I would give him the silent treatment for a while.
    I would never mention it again because I wouldn't want him to know that it bothered me.
Accidentally, you find out that your boyfriend confided in his friend that he had a sexual dream about his favorite actor.

  1. How much would it bother you?

    Extremely
    Very
    Moderately
    A little bit
    Barely
    Not at all

  2. How would do you react?

    I would have to break up with him.
    I would angrily confront him, possibly getting into a huge argument.
    I would bring up the topic casually, maybe with humor, and discuss it with him without necessarily referring to his dream.
    I would get angry or irritable whenever reminded of the incident.
    I would calmly ask him to discuss it with me.
    I would get back at him by sleeping with another man.
    I would ignore it.
    I would get back at him by spreading a rumor that I am having an affair.
    I would refuse to watch movies starring that actor.
    I would try to avoid watching movies starring that actor.
    I would get back at him by spreading a rumor that I too am having fantasies about other men.
    I would probably end up hitting or insulting him.
    I would watch out for men in his environment who resemble the actor.
Your partner has to leave the town for two weeks to go on a business trip (business meeting, workshop, convention etc.).

  1. How much would it bother you?

    Extremely
    Very
    Moderately
    A little bit
    Barely
    Not at all

  2. Would you call him at unexpected times to check if he is in his hotel room?

    Never
    Almost never
    Seldom
    Couple of times
    Number of times, but not every day
    Every day
    Several times a day

  3. Would you expect him to fully concentrate on his work (or the main purpose of the trip) and otherwise stay at his hotel?

    Not at all
    Not really
    Kind of, but not entirely
    More or less
    Mostly
    Absolutely

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