1. Once I start to argue with someone, I prefer to tackle all the touchy issues I need to discuss with my partner (rather than solving them one at a time).
   
   True
   False

2. When arguing, I state what problems I have with my partner's behavior/opinions, rather than criticizing his/her character.
   
   True
   False

3. When I realize that I was wrong, I admit it to my partner.
   
   True
   False

4. When we argue, I attempt to find common ground before exploring the differences in our opinions.
   
   True
   False

5. When arguing, I ask my partner for her/his side of the story.
   
   True
   False

6. We end up fighting over something completely different from what we started with.
   
   True
   False

7. I get so furious during arguments that it is difficult to think straight.
   
   True
   False

8. During an argument, I leave alone old issues that have already been solved.
   
   True
   False

9. I validate my partner's feelings, even if I don't agree with her/his arguments.
   
   True
   False

10. When the argument gets heated, I suggest a temporary cease-fire, a break to calm down.
    
    True
    False

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