In your romantic relationships, is there give and take? Do you hand out all you have or suck the life out of your partner? Unhealthy patterns of giving and taking can lead to codependency or passive aggressive behavior. Find out if there is a healthy balance in your relationship with the Giver/Taker Test.

Take this test to determine the role in which you generally find yourself in your current relationship. Since the role you play can differ depending on whom you are interacting with, respond with your current or most recent relationship in mind. Suggestion: Compare your score with that of your current partner to see what your relationship's balance is.

Fill in the questionnaire, responding as you truthfully would in such situations. If you have never been in one or more of the situations, respond as you most likely would. After finishing the Giver/Taker Test, you will receive a detailed, personalized interpretation of your score that includes diagrams, information on the test topic and tips.