Arguing Style Test - Abridged 10 questions, 5 min Arguments are a normal part of relationships that, when constructively made, can help bring about healthy progression. Whether you argue with your mother, your lover, your boss or your coworker, it is important that you argue effectively and avoid certain traps that can lead to frustration and all-around bad feelings. This test is designed to evaluate what kind of arguing style you use when you fight with the people you care about. Examine the following statements and indicate how well they describe you, how often you feel that way, or to what degree you agree with the statement.